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Think before you act. Never say anything on social media that you would not be prepared to say to a live audience of fifty.  In fact what you say can potentially go to millions all over the world.  Do you really want to give a bad impression of yourself? Never post pictures of yourself in compromising positions, there are a lot of nasty people out there just waiting to trap you.  When in doubt don't! Also don't spend too much time on social media.  It can be a place to make friends, but it is no substitute for interacting with people in real life face to face. The tone of a person's voice and there body language mean you can understand what they are saying.  The written word does not have a tone of voice and it is easy to misunderstand someone on social media.  If you could hear their voice you might find they were not really being as unkind and abrupt as it sounded in your head. Making friends of the people who live near you or work with you can lead to lifelong friendships, but when you can switch someone off you do not put so much into the relationship.  With a day to day friend you learn to get over the hiccups in your relationship and soldier on.  With a social media friend it is so easy to literally switch off if they annoy you. I'm not suggesting you get rid of social media friends, just beware of the temptation to ditch them. It is possible to stay safe and happy on social media and I hope you do and find these remarks helpful.

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